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Osi Osgood
Film God
Posts: 10204
From: Mountian Home, ID.
Registered: Jul 2005
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posted October 09, 2009 09:39 PM
Congratulations Tom!
I am happily married to a lovely 25 year old, (I'm 44!), and have never been happier. Yes, going to the gym helps. As Groucho stated ...
"Your only as old as the women you feel!" (wave of eyebrows)
All joking aside, if I may make some great marriage advice, it is this ...
(we live by this in our marriage)
When you get married, a foundation is set in stone in between you and your spouse ...
That foundation is divorce.
Everytime you don't forgive each other for something, whether big or small, (hopefully not too big, those a re hard to forgive easily), a brick is placed on the foundation.
Now, at first, there's no problem with seeing each other. After all, there's only one or two bricks. However, each time you don't forgive something, another brick is added.
... brick by brick ... brick by brick ...
Until, after so much unforgiveness, you suddenly can't see each other, for the wall is too high.
This is when divorce happens.
The way to cure this, is, each and everyday, at the close of the day, you ask each other, honestly ...
"Honey, did I sin against you in anyway today?"
(choose whatever word you would wish to replace for "sin" if that makes you uncomfortable).
In the best case scenario, your spouse will be honest with you, and you deal with it, BEFORE YOU GO TO BED, so that you don't continue to carry a bitterness of unforgiveness in your life.
That is my advice. It really does work.
Just make sure your evils against your spouse aren't too big for, as I said, big things are harder to just get by.
I hope the advice helps.
All the best on your nuptuals!
-------------------- "All these moments will be lost in time, just like ... tears, in the rain. "
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Osi Osgood
Film God
Posts: 10204
From: Mountian Home, ID.
Registered: Jul 2005
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posted October 11, 2009 08:47 AM
Tom, if you have the chance, shoot your wedding video in super 8 scope! I was able, with some doing, to attach my (at that time) scope lense onto the front of my Super 8 camera, and made some excellent home movies in scope. What a great topic for a special scope film!
Once again, many happy nuptuals!
-------------------- "All these moments will be lost in time, just like ... tears, in the rain. "
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