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Topic: I just got MARRIED!!!
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Osi Osgood
Film God
Posts: 10204
From: Mountian Home, ID.
Registered: Jul 2005
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posted November 06, 2013 12:32 PM
Congratulations my friend! May you have many happy years together.
My absolute best advice, and it will save your marriage, (and anybody's marriage).
When you get married, a foundation is placed between you and your wife ...
It's not marriage, it's divorce.
When you get married, it's just a foundation. However, every time you hurt each other, a brick is added to that foundation.
Now, one brick isn't going to end your marriage.
However, with every brick of unforgiveness that is allowed to stay on the foundation, it makes it that much easier to add another brick and yet another, and yet ... another.
At first, you can still "see" each other ... but alas, when the "wall" of unforgiveness becomes so high that you can't see each other, that's when divorce happens in reality.
Therefore ...
I and my wife do this each and every night.
We ask each other, "Honey, did I do anything to piss you off?" she'll tell me if I have, I'll tell her if she has. We deal with it before we go to sleep, and it gone. I've never heard my wife, not a single time, ever bring up something that happened in the past, nor have I.
As I said, it's the kind of advice that really does work.
OSI
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"All these moments will be lost in time, just like ... tears, in the rain. "
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